I can say for sure that the pain my life is not where I lied in the hospital bed and hope for some pain reliever to ease my pain. It is a matter of the heart. The first real pain is when my family left me at a strange city to further pursue my education. There is no great university at my home town so I need to go to the big town to be a college student.
The first time by my own in the big city is really frightening. I have no friends and I am all alone. I have to do everything by myself from buying food to wash my dishes and my clothes. But, the experience taught me a lot so I can be an independent person. Until today, my mother always praised me how I manage to live on my own for almost a decade in the big city.